3. teach children how to avoid being lured-children need to be taught what traps to avoid. they need to know that there are children and adults in every neighborhood who have problems and might try to take advantage of kids. they are much less likely to "take the bait" or blame themselves if they are approached and know this. tell kids that if the request...
-seems like it would separate him from the other children
-goes against family rules
-involves a secret
-seems like an unearned "special" favor
they should refuse and seek you out and tell you what happened