ari and i were watching a recorded episode of so you think you can dance last night. a couple was dancing a contemporary piece portraying soul mates. as it unfolded ari said "i think this has a lot of romance." i looked at him a bit surprised, but he went on. "i don't really know what that is.....but i think this has a lot of it." by now i'm suppressing a smile. i wasn't prepared for what came next, though. "i think it's like about marriage....and castles and stuff."