we really try to help our kids label their feelings and talk through them rather than simply exploding, crying, or slamming doors. it's hard for kids to find the words to describe such abstract things so we thought we'd help. instead of just posting a feelings chart (just google it) i put one on magnet paper and cut them up. our boys have a good time looking at the "silly" faces and imitating the feelings portrayed. (great practice for expressing feelings and identifying feelings in others) and in more serious moments they will use a magnet they've pulled off the fridge to show us what's going on inside.